Exit Stage Right

It’s all about me. None of us would likely admit to that statement, but each of us has had moments like this.

Have you ever been in a conversation where a couple of people jockey for attention? Have you ever found yourself jumping into the ring yourself? I have. Inwardly, I laugh at the childishness of the situation, but sometimes a moment of insecurity or a feeling of being passed over ignites a flame to compete.

So, what happens when the spotlight turns your way? Is it satisfying? Do you feel joy? Probably not. When we force the spotlight in our direction, it never feels fulfilling. It might garner attention, our peers may notice us, but the light quickly fades.

What if instead of living centerstage, we slid to the side and gave someone else a chance? It’s tempting to think that we will lose something if we elevate someone else, but it’s the opposite. It’s freeing. It provides joy. And you might just find that someone can do a task even better than you.

Teacher Matt Eicheldinger on Instagram captures the essence of this idea. “Find someone who hasn’t had the opportunity to shine yet and give them a chance.” Beautiful. What would your week look like if you adopted this idea?

It is not to be like that among you. On the contrary, whoever is greatest among you should become like the youngest, and whoever leads, like the one serving. For who is greater, the one at the table or the one serving? Isn’t it the one at the table? But I am among you as the one who serves. (Luke 22:26-27 CSB).